Dec 06, 1996 -Dec 06, 2021 , life has been good so far and it will keep being better and better. Do I believe in that? No. I want to work on that and make sure things go nice and wise. This is not the article or the blog, it's the life itself that has been lived under every emotion of joy and sorrows, failures and success, ups and downs, right and left ok let make it quick and assign 0 and 1. Life has been lived in between 0 and 1 with a varying scale. This is not the biography too. It's just one quarter of human life being concluded so that things will look more clear and the future will look more bright. We live on lots of aspects like there is family, there is home, there is society, there is a nation, there are friends, there are supporters, there are critics, there are challenges, there are different times and spaces in between where I have been into. I'm like this because of all the aspects that I have been in to and it's not that important, what's important...
We keep trying to
survive each day with some sort of struggle, irony, happiness, failures and
lots of other experiences. While doing so if something doesn’t works as per we
want that to be, we feel disappointed. Some of us decide to do better on coming
days while some of us keep consoling ourselves that because of some factor that
didn’t happened and that factor is called EXCUSES.
Who knows you may have
worked hard or performed better but you
could not do so, instead you kept convincing that you could have done better but
because of this and that you couldn’t
achieve. Instead of learning from mistake we keep convincing that we gave 100%
and it didn’t worked. We don’t push ourselves beyond our comfort zone because
we have lots of excuses ready to console ourselves. Until and unless we will
accept our weaknesses and work hard, excuses will always be there to heal our
disappointment and that will always be barrier for working hard because we
think we gave as much as we can give. So instead of making excuses we need to
realize that there was something and lacking and I should work hard even more
rather than telling excuses all around. Its never too late to realize our
mistakes and weakness at least you can do better on coming days.
So just try to
accept it and promise to self to work better rather than convincing with
excuses. Lets take an example, you scored low in your exams and now if somebody
asks you why you didn’t scored high ? No matter whatever be the reason you give
do you think that will repay low grades? Never !! instead it will hinder you
from accepting and realizing your weaknesses. If you are sportsman and you are
low on your stamina and kept showing excuses do you think that would be enough
for your win? Will that excuse be equivalent to your win ? Failing is natural,
and if you kept telling excuses instead of realizing it that would be
stupidity. That will cultivate habit of giving excuses every time and you will
never realize that you could have done better with your life but you never
realized it, when you did it was too late to realize ? Sometimes there would be some factors for our
failures but not always. Keep realizing your weakness instead of convincing
self with excuses !!
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