WHAT IF YOU FAILED?? HOW TO ENCOUNTER FAILURES??

• Whenever you  will encounter failure, then there will be two questions before you 
• 1. whether to walk away 
• 2. or try harder.                                            No matter whatever it is whether its career, exams, dreams, love life or something else. You may feel low, right? Of course everyone do. But best part is how will you keep yourself standby? How will you manage to console yourself? How will you provide goose bumps? What if you want to give up and go away, whether you will be able to look for better alternatives or not. You will stuck with no any better options, mind full of dilemmas, hopeless, helpless and many more distractions. Little things will bother you, it would be hard to control self. Mind will be unstoppble with lots of questions, questions without any answers. So how will you handle yourself? How will you help yourself to escape from that situation.                                                                                             Every time failure do not strike with same impact but there are some which will be hard to ignore.  Somebody will advise with one more try while some will advise you to look for other alternatives. You will again be in dilemma. How to vanish everything and walk away? Won't you feel pity for yourselves to give up and walk away. What if you came up with one more try? Will you be able to overcome that failure? What if you couldn’t overcome, won't it be just waste of time.                                                                                                      So one failure will result two options. We have heard of lots of suicides just because they failed in exams, just they failed to get someone they love and many more issues. How can life of people be so cheap that they can vanish themselves just because of one failure or one person. So what could be best for failures, whether giving up or trying even harder? Well ,my friend, that depends on you and that failure. Will you be satisfied in near future with your present decision? One thing you should learn is, you should be accepting first whether that’s good one or bad result. Nobody is born with perfections, its ok to fail, everybody fails. Failures doesn’t mean to try harder every time or to give up every time.  That will depend on you and failure you encountered.  So questions may arise, when to give up and when to try harder. That will be all upto you, how much you want anything. If that is one and only thing that will please you and satisfy you can go for it with even better preparations, optimistic attitude, energetic  and better strategy.                                                                                                      And if you want to give up and look for better options then you are ok again. Sometimes its hard to choose best for us and destiny determines that for us. So its ok,  not  to be ok. Its ok to fail, its ok to be failure. When Eddison failed for thousands time to invent  electric bulb, he said "I didn’t failed, I just discovered thousands of way that will not lead to my expected results." So what made Eddision to be  successful, was that trying even harder? No its not, what made him to invent so was his positive attitude. Sometimes you will fail to achieve your dreams, pass your exams, convince whom you love. That  may not count, may be there is something that destiny wants you to be, may be there is someone even special with whom you may fall in love. Everything is temporary whether its failure or success, so don’t  ruin yourself just because of failure. So have gut to face it , accept it and move on with better decisions. This life is precious and its worth living with happiness and love. This life will give you everything you just need to have optimistic vision and ready to grab it. When one door is closed don't get upset, look around you will definitely find other doors to destiny. Last but not the least "life is beautiful isn't it"?